1. HDIFA kissing or holding hands in public? DIFALD
  2. Do I/you say “I love you” often enough, or too often? HDMAMMF
  3. Is there more or less romance in our relationship now than when we were newlyweds? HDMAMMF
  4. HDIF when I want to be romantic and you are not in the mood? DIFALD
  5. What is the most romantic thing I/you have done for you/me lately? HDTMMF
  6. HDIFA giving you “all of me”? DIFALD
  7. HDIFA dialogue as a way to say “I love you”? DIFALD
  8. What is the greatest thing about our love for each other? HDTMMF
  9. Is our love strong enough to last a lifetime? HDMAMMF
  10. What could make our love for each other stronger? HDMAMMF
  11. Do I see Jesus alive in our marriage? HDIFST
  12. What is my fondest memory of our courtship? HDTMMF
  13. Share the first time I knew you were the one for me. DIFALD
  14. What was our favorite song when we were courting, and HDIF remembering/hearing it? DIFALD
  15. HDIF when I think about some of the crazy things we did for each other? DIFALD
  16. What about you turned me on the most? HDIFA that quality now? DIFALD
  17. HDIF about us when others notice how much we love each other?
  18. HDIF when I remember our wedding day?
  19. HDIF when I get a surprise note or call from you?
  20. WAMF knowing you care more about me than about anyone else? DIFALD
  21. What do I think you miss most about our romance? HDTMMF
  22. How does my personality style interfere with our romance? HDTMMF
  23. HDIF when our other activities become more important than the two of us? DIFALD
  24. HDIFA going out to dinner together? DIFALD
  25. HDIFA bringing our dialogue books on a date? DIFALD
  26. Is our marriage bed sacred? HDIFAMA
  27. HDIF when I (wife)/you (husband) wear/don’t wear make-up? DIFALD
  28. How can I become more sensitive to you? DIFALD
  29. HDIFA introducing you as my spouse? DIFALD
  30. HDIF when we make time for us? DIFALD
  31. What sacrifices am I willing to make to be more romantic with you? HDIFAT
  32. Do I see dialogue as part of our romance? HDIFAT
  33. Romance is a decision. HDIFAT
  34. What song would I dedicate to you today? HDIFAT
  35. How do I want you to romance me? HDTMMF
  36. Do I see romance as part of our holiness? HDTMMF
  37. WAMFA being creative in our romance? DIFALD
  38. How can I be loving to you even when we can’t make love? HDTMMF
  39. HDIF when I receive a gift? DIFALD
  40. HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift?
  41. HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused? DIFALD
  42. HDIF when I have to ask you for. . . .? DIFALD
  43. HDIF when you light candles? DIFALD
  44. Can people tell we love each other when they see us? HDIFAMA
  45. HDIFA taking ballroom dancing lessons with you? DIFALD
  46. HDIF when you reach out and touch me? DIFALD
  47. HDIF when your eyes sparkle? DIFALD
  48. HDIF when you gaze into my eyes? DIFALD
  49. HDIF when you sing me a love song? DIFALD
  50. HDIF when we dance in the living room? DIFALD
  51. HDIF when you tell me you love me?
  52. HDIF reading the Song of Solomon?
  53. HDIF when I am buying a gift for you?
  54. What is my favorite pet name that you call me? HDIFAT
  55. HDIF when we hold hands in public?
  56. HDIFA holding hands in church?
  57. Do we still sit next to each other? HDIFAT
  58. Do I sometimes take you for granted? HDIFAMA
  59. Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDMAMMF
  60. Do I see romance as foreplay? HDMAMMF
  61. Do I see us as too old for romance? HDMAMMF
  62. Can I be romantic when I don’t FEEL romantic? HDMAMMF
  63. HDIF asking for romance? DIFALD
  64. How important is spontaneity to me? HDMAMMF
  65. HDIF when you shower me with attention? HDMAMMF
  66. Do I worry about being taken for granted? HDIFSTWY?
  67. Does romance = sex? HDIFAMA
  68. Am I ever suspicious when you are especially nice? HDMAMMF
  69. Am I more or less affectionate than my parents? HDIFAT
  70. Do I see you as more or less affectionate than your parents? HDMAMMF
  71. Do I keep score? (When you be nice to me, I’ll be nice to you.) HDMAMMF
  72. Do I worry that this romance stuff is expensive, and we can’t afford it? HDMAMMF
  73. Do we have time for things like lingering over a candlelight dinner at home? HDMAMMF
  74. Do I believe you’ll be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDMAMMF
  75. Am I a romantic? HDIFAMA
  76. HDIF when you give me a mushy card? DIFALD
  77. What makes me feel holy? DIFALD
  78. HDIFA surprising you / being surprised with flowers? DIFALD
  79. HDIFA being affectionate in front of the kids? DIFALD
  80. When was the last time we gazed at a sunset, sunrise or starry night together? HDIFAT
  81. HDIFA being tickled? DIFALD
  82. HDIF when you run your fingers through my hair? DIFALD
  83. HDIFA a second honeymoon? DIFALD
  84. HDIF recalling our honeymoon? DIFALD
  85. HDIFA celebrating our anniversaries? DIFALD
  86. If we could go anywhere for a romantic weekend, I’d take you to…. HDIFTYT

Dialogue Acronym Key

DILD: Describe in loving detail.

DIFLD: Describe in full loving detail.

DMFILD: Describe my feelings in loving detail.

HDIF: How do I feel ….?

HDIFA: How do I feel about …?

HDIFAMA: How do I feel about my answer?

HDIFAT: How do I feel about this/that?

HDIFSTWY: How do I feel sharing this with you?

HDIFTYT: How do I feel telling you this?

HDMAMMF: How does my answer make me feel

WAMFA: What are my feelings about…?

WAMFAT: What are my feelings about this/that?