Questions

  1. HDIF about having relatives over for the holidays? DIFALD
  2. HDIFA going to relatives’ homes for the holidays? DIFALD
  3. Do I like your mother? HDMAMMF
  4. Do I like your father? HDMAMMF
  5. HDIFA the way you act around my family? DIFALD
  6. HDIFA when I am around your family? HDMAMMF
  7. Do you respect my family? HDMAMMF
  8. Do I respect your family? HDMAMMF
  9. HDIFA your family’s traditions? DIFALD
  10. HDIFA my family’s traditions? DIFALD
  11. HDIFA the amount of time we spend with my family? DIFALD
  12. HDIFA the amount of time we spend with your family? DIFALD
  13. Which of my family members has the most influence on me? HDMAMMF
  14. Which of your family members has the most influence on me? HDMAMMF
  15. HDIFA our child(ren) when they behave like your relatives? DIFALD
  16. HDIFA how close we live to your family? DIFALD
  17. HDIFA our relatives’ jobs? DIFALD
  18. HDIFA our home in relation to our relatives’ homes? DIFALD
  19. Are we in competition with our relatives regarding lifestyle, jobs, faith, home life? HDMAMMF
  20. In what family challenges do we need to participate? HDMAMMF
  21. Would I go on vacation with your family? HDMAMMF
  22. Would I go on vacation with my family? HDMAMMF
  23. Do I show enough interest in my family? HDMAMMF
  24. Do I show enough interest in your family? HDMAMMF
  25. Do I forgive my family enough? HDMAMMF
  26. Am I holding a grudge against your family? HDMAMMF
  27. Am I holding a grudge against my family? HDMAMMF
  28. HDIFA inheriting money from my parents? DIFALD
  29. HDIFA inheriting money from your parents? DIFALD
  30. HDIFA attending the same church as my family? DIFALD
  31. HDIFA attending the same church as your family? DIFALD
  32. Are we in unity with your family regarding our faith in God? HDMAMMF
  33. Are we in unity with my family regarding our faith in God? HDMAMMF

Dialogue Acronym Key

DILD: Describe in loving detail.

DIFLD: Describe in full and loving detail.

DMFILD: Describe my feelings in loving detail.

HDIF: How do I feel ….?

HDIFA: How do I feel about …?

HDIFAMA: How do I feel about my answer?

HDIFAT: How do I feel about this/that?

HDIFSTWY: How do I feel sharing this with you?

HDIFTYT: How do I feel telling you this?

HDMAMMF: How does my answer make me feel?

WAMFA: What are my feelings about…?

WAMFAT: What are my feelings about this/that?